Am I Getting The Most From My Board Games?

“I buy too many board games” is a phrase that many gamers have thought when staring at their collection of boxes or possibly even admitted to other people in their group or hobby. No other hobby that I’ve been a part of has ever had questioning additional purchases as much as board gaming, with fellow players creating “challenges” at the start of the year in order to slow the tide of inevitable purchases for the remainder of the year. The 10×10, 10 individual play sessions of 10 different games, is a resolution created by BoardGameGeek users publicly to “make the most” of their current gaming collections before getting caught up in the “Cult of the New” and the inevitable game purchases that follow. If you Google “cult of the new”, you’ll find the first 6 results are all connected in some way the board game industry despite the term possibly applying to numerous different hobbies and purchasing habits. Do we have a unique “problem” here that needs to be solved?

With many beautiful games in our collections, we'll often channel our inner Gollum with praises of "precious"

With many beautiful games in our collections, we’ll often channel our inner Gollum with praises of “precious”

I’m no different to other board gamers, with a modest collection and the constant personal reflection and justification needed each and every time I think about ordering a new title. Does it “fill a hole” in my gaming collection, providing a gaming experience and challenge that I currently am “lacking”? Would my gaming group enjoy it or do I have players in mind that this game would suit? Currently I’m eyeing Orleans and appraising its characteristics, noting that I don’t have a bag builder, nor many Euros and as it’s rated highly and covers 2-4 players it surely earns a place on my shelf? How different is it from The Voyages of Marco Polo, and is it justified to have both in my collection? I assess my collection using language such as “balanced” or “variety” but after amassing more and more games, I wonder about whether I’m doing my collection and my wallet an “injustice” by continuing to be enticed by the sirens call of every FFG release.

I currently have a personal library of around 36 board games and growing. Individuals inside of the hobby will understand that this is a small/medium sized collection in the context of board game ownership and those outside of the hobby will utter disbelief when hearing the total, as if it’s the amount of serial murders I’ve committed during my time on earth. When I look through my list of titles, I feel that there are gaps in it still; possibly not enough Euro’s or not enough games that play exceptionally with only two players; not a single party game for when I take games to the family or not a single title by the esteemed Stefan Feld. The numbers read in very different ways depending on your perspective.

With a full time job, a fiancée and other “adult” commitments in my life I probably get to play board games averaging twice a week, once with the regular gaming group and the other either at an organised board game event, with a couple of friends on the weekend or with the lady or family. With 36 games in my collection that’s 3 unique games to play per month before I’ve cycled through my entire library for the year.  So with 52 weeks in a year, that would be 104 gaming sessions allowing me more than enough time to play everything, right? That would be IF I happen to ONLY play the games in my collection, WITHOUT trying new games at events, playing whatever other members of my group brought around and definitely not buying any new games throughout the year. If I competed in the 10×10 challenge, I’d maybe purchase one game per year in December with my available game time. So am I getting value out of my game library?

The Elephant is the best starting Tile, or is it the Snake, or the Extra Prayer points?

The Elephant is the best starting Tile, or is it the Snake, or the Extra Prayer points?

Some of the games I own require a single play to understand their nuances. Once I’ve gotten 5 tokens of affection to the “Love Letter” princess, I’ve pretty much understood many of the game’s tactics, and repeated plays are purely entertainment based or introducing other people to how simple mechanics in such a small package can be so enjoyable. I have a few games in my collection that are similar; Star Realms, No Thanks!, Dead Man’s Draw and Welcome to the Dungeon to name some, but I also have many others that have complexity and depth that cannot be “mastered” in a single sitting. What power combination offers the best returns in a game of Kemet? What’s the right combination of focused actions in Roll for the Galaxy in relation to my starting tiles? What’s the right balance of Greyjoy and Tyrell Cards in my Game of Thrones deck that will be able to cope with the onslaught of Targaryen military might?

If you’ve read this far, you’ve probably realised that I’m not offering any answers, justifications or solutions to my own inner turmoil. Perhaps putting this out there might assist in my own internal debate as to whether to expand or contract my collection. There are definitely moments when I look at my collection and wish I had more time to get through that Arcadia Quest campaign,  to experience the victories and defeats that await me inside that box. More plays of Eldritch Horror to experience the triumph of defeating Yig, learning which combination of heroes will give me the edge against the forces of Evil. How many plays of each game will be equivalent to the purchase price? What is the value of each of these beautiful boxes of chits, dice and cards?

In these discussions, the language we use often defines what we see as value in board games. Speaking from my own lexicon (as one can literally only do), using the terms collection and library already denotes an intrinsic value I see in simply owning the game. I view board games as a functional collection of items in my house that I simply enjoy by owning and even sharing with my friends. I gain immense enjoyment in researching what opportunities lie in the square cardboard confines and who I would take to the tabletop “battlefield” to compete with for the crown of victory. Thinking of how loved ones and friends might share in the enrichment that board gaming offers me, how we can share moments and discussions around the table is often strangely as rewarding as the actual purchase and interactions are. When I get each and every one to the table, I enjoy the play through despite not truly understanding all the nuances of each game and how they best work, and rotating between each new game renews my love for how diverse our hobby truly is.

Istanbul is the current family favourite, probably getting more plays in with them than with other newer games.

Istanbul is the current family favourite, probably getting more plays in with them than with other newer games.

As a board game site, we also constantly attempt to play as many new games as possible to provide content to our readers that is fresh, engaging and interesting to read. Would I love to play the games I already own more to get the most out of them and possibly understand them better; certainly. Is it going to stem the research into the latest titles from great minds like Eric Lang or the frothing at the mouth (The Secret Cabal ®) and pre-orders for great games I hear about when something becomes the “hotness” on Board Game Geek? Most certainly not. As long as I’m enjoying every second of my time as a part of this hobby and feeling no regrets about buying more titles, I see no immediate reason to change.

What do you think about your gaming collection? Do you own too many games, too few games? Do you regret any of your purchases and do you also deliberate every board game purchase internally? Let me know I’m not alone.

  • DieJason

    Recently I haven’t had much time for gaming, but after reading this I think I maybe have become more of a collector.

    Got Imperial Assault this past weekend as a gift, and I already know what expansions / figures to buy. Problem is, I haven’t played the game yet, heck, I haven’t even read the rules yet.

  • You are not alone. Great piece, thanks. For me it’s typically a money justification and i also look quite heavily at the balance aspect of the games i own… but trying to lean more heavily towards not buying than buying right now… but it’s so hard with so many good new games…

    Hi, my name is Brett Fish and i play board games.
    “Hi Brett”

  • Sameer Parker

    I always feel a huge amount of regret about not playing my collection enough. I have far too many games. And on top of that, I’m constantly adjusting my wishlist and prioritising my next purchases.

    As it is with many people, I have two kids, a spouse and a demanding job to balance out and I never have enough time to play and perfect games. On the other hand, I do game around twice a week, I have a spouse who is a very good gamer and I really like having a variety of experiences to choose from.

    It is however hard to justify when my collection is on average, only played a few times each (with a few played a ton of times and a few unpunched). Also, I’m very much okay with culling my collection regularly – though it still doesn’t seem to stop growing after almost 4 years in the hobby.

    The way I justify it is in the amount of social experiences I have with them. Hosting a Tabletop day, having multiple gaming groups bring us closer to our circle of friends and sharing some of those super memorable gaming moments is how I judge the “value” of my gaming collection. It’s a great platform to strengthen friendships and phenomenal way grow your circle (particularly for someone as introverted as I am).

    • Stuart McGarrick

      I think we share many of the same sentiments, specifically my preferred method of socialising is over board games as it takes the focus away from me.

      I was discussing with a friend earlier and thought I’d throw it out: Why is it that board gamers feel this type of guilt more, or the need to justify our spend more than other hobbies? Video gamers don’t ever hesitate when they buy another FPS or RPG. Is it because those experiences seem to be more “finite” in nature? Also you wont find many surfers owning 8 or 9 boards. Are we possibly in some kind of strange middle ground in regards to purchases?

      • Sameer Parker

        It’s a great point. I often think about the same issue: I sometimes feel super guilty after buying a game when a dinner at a nice restaurant or an Xbox game costs the same and sometimes even more.

        I take your point around it being finite, and it might be. I do think that the nature of board gaming might be one of the reasons. Is it not because the hobby is so niche that when people ask you how much you paid for a game, the answer is deemed as being expensive for something so nuanced? That people don’t understand the inherent value of the experiences the game brings itself? Unless of course they experience it.

        I think that gamers are very much in the a weird hobby limbo: we have the acquisition disorder of typical gamers which I think is driven (much like it is with video games) by the need for different and new experiences. On the other hand, board games are more permanent hobby. Collecting games and having a huge variety of experiences on hand is a big part of the culture. I think personally, just finding the balance between buying and playing regularly is enough to keep me from feeling like I overspend,

        I do often do lots of math to justify the cost of games – “the rands per hour per player” is one of my favourite though I probably think it is a bit hokey.

        I think overall, I do feel guilty sometimes looking at my collection. I also spend a lot of time reminding myself that I shouldn’t feel guilty about it. It’s the specific experiences that help: like that time I stabbed everyone in the back in Dead of Winter when no one expecting or the time I laughed so hard while playing Times Up Title Recall. Having these shared experiences with an extended circle of friends definitely helps.

  • Luke Morris

    Over 200 games. Right now I have to accept that I’ve built a collection for collection’s sake rather than playing games repeatedly. I’m not Cult of the New though (don’t buy many new games whatsoever, just a couple a year maybe) and I’ve definitely plateaued as I trade away old games for games I want more.
    I’ve collected and played for the last decade and the games from those first couple of years (Samurai, Through the Desert etc) have many more plays than the newer games I like more, purely because of the amount of choice diluting plays.

    Within trading though I’m now trading away games I like but never play for games I really want to try. This suggests that one day I’ll be trading some games that I love right now….

    • Stuart McGarrick

      So question then Luke… Have you found that the more games you have amassed that the conscious decision weighing or the need for new games has decreased, or that you think more or less about whether you should buy “another” game? I mean, I’ve had deliberations with a collection of 30 odd games, I would love to hear the perspective from someone in the hundreds.

      • Luke Morris

        Excellent question.

        I actually consider it more now than I ever used to. The fact I have very little money available for such things at the moment (new house, new baby, another child, in a band and cricket team and all those take my money) means that I’m very slow to buy a new game.

        I’m very open to making trades though and will pick up second hand games if I really want them and they’re cheap.

        However, I know of people with huge collections (thousands) who will make orders for a dozen new games each month. Even if I COULD afford that then I wouldn’t do it, as I still like to think that I can learn and play every game I have, even though there are some I’ve never played and have owned for years.

  • Stuntman06

    In the past several months, I’ve been more into trying to play my games than acquiring new ones. I hit a point where I realised that I wanted to play through all of the games that I have. I still buy games, but at a much slower pace now. I am slowly working through those games I have not played yet or much. Some are tough as I need a particularly specialised group for them.

  • Marvin Hsiao

    Thanks for the interesting read, Stuart.

    Strangely, my acquisition disorder is only amplified by the fact I don’t get to play enough, as if I am trying to fill the gaming void by “retail therapy”. This inevitably leads to remorse, prompting me to sell or trade away some of the impulse purchases from my collection. As to whether I am getting the most out of my games, I feel some games I collect out of sentimental value or “potential” (to be played one day). I play 10% of my collection 90% of the time but have no problem hanging on to the 90% of games that don’t hit the table. Just looking at the box on my shelf is enough.

    I have a problem, I know.

    • Stuart McGarrick

      I understand the collector mentality all too well 🙂

  • Greg

    Entertaining reading 🙂

    I’d say at least 30% of the board games I buy end up being almost immediately re-sold or left alone in the corner because they failed on the fun factor and nobody else wants them either.

    The lesson I learned? – Play first, buy after. Blind buys have rarely worked out well for me 🙁

    I don’t think the guilt of buying board games is unique to this hobby though. I feel the same when buying graphic novels and camera equipment. The guilt subsides fairly soon after I’ve punched the bits, unfolded the board, and admired its beauty, but the guilt factor is a definite limiter when deciding whether or not to buy.

    It seems that most of us buy more games than we need/have time to play, and end up playing a handful of games that are more familiar to others, or with an easier entry point for new gamers.

    Perhaps part of the guilt also comes from knowing that if you really wanted to you could play game X at several of your friends’ places who own a copy or board game stores, which means you don’t reaaaally need it… but we wants it! 🙂

  • Greg

    I have a new theory about why we might feel guilt – we’re unable to ‘use’ our game immediately, and have to wait/find someone/a group to play with (delayed gratification) and even then, it’s not regularly used (perception of limited value?).

    A console game can be played and enjoyed immediately on your own, a board game not so much. (the latest LCG craze would be excluded from this theory as these appear to be the easiest to get to the table these days).

    Just my 2c 🙂

    • Stuart McGarrick

      I think you have a very strong point in regards to gaming being social. While I have games I get to play more often with the family, the many of the games I have are too long for the family time or are a touch too complex as none of them are regular gamers.

      Therefore most of my gaming time is social time, which I don’t have as much of as I’d like and needing to get all the other gamers I know together at the same time takes some planning.

      Video Games just require myself, no setup and flexible hours. Still sadly it is no substitute although I enjoyed the Witcher 3 as much as the next person.